You said something-that childless/petless/jobless etc at this age can sound like a crisis. Just want to remind you that—to many of us out here in obligations that chafe or suck, you are in a dream palace. The last time I was that way, I was too young to understand that it could be a time to really get to know myself. Instead I was trying desperately to lock all those things down bc we’re told they mean success and didn’t know that some of it could wait. I agree with you, the fact that I recognize the chafing means something has already broken loose where I am. But none of us are in a crisis, it’s just constantly refining what it means to have a life we’re proud of.
You said something-that childless/petless/jobless etc at this age can sound like a crisis. Just want to remind you that—to many of us out here in obligations that chafe or suck, you are in a dream palace. The last time I was that way, I was too young to understand that it could be a time to really get to know myself. Instead I was trying desperately to lock all those things down bc we’re told they mean success and didn’t know that some of it could wait. I agree with you, the fact that I recognize the chafing means something has already broken loose where I am. But none of us are in a crisis, it’s just constantly refining what it means to have a life we’re proud of.
Woman, you are so smart. And so eloquent with words. Thank you for all of this!
I find your writing authentic, brave and inspiring. Thank you
So true. Damn the templates! :-)